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Reclaiming Intimacy After Infidelity
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/11/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/11/25

Reclaiming Intimacy After Infidelity

It all begins with an idea.

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Working Together to Rebuild Your Marriage After an Affair
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/9/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/9/25

Working Together to Rebuild Your Marriage After an Affair

The cooperative effort required by both partners to rebuild a relationship after infidelity.

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Understanding an Affair - What Happened? Why Did It Happen? What’s Next?
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 6/6/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 6/6/25

Understanding an Affair - What Happened? Why Did It Happen? What’s Next?

After an affair, the importance of gaining clarity regarding what happened, why it happened, and what choices you will make next.

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Affair Reaction: Agony, Chaos, and Confusion
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/3/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/3/25

Affair Reaction: Agony, Chaos, and Confusion

What to expect and how to manage affair reaction and chaos that follows the exposure of infidelity.

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The Pain of Exposing an Affair
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/31/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/31/25

The Pain of Exposing an Affair

How affairs are exposed and how it affects recovery for couples who choose to heal their relationship

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Obsessive Focus After Betrayal: Breaking Free from Intrusive Thoughts
Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/29/25 Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/29/25

Obsessive Focus After Betrayal: Breaking Free from Intrusive Thoughts

Eight strategies to help win the battle over intrusive thoughts about an affair.

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14 Steps of Affair Recovery for the Betrayed Partner
Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/21/25 Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/21/25

14 Steps of Affair Recovery for the Betrayed Partner

14 steps of affair recovery for the betrayed spouse following a partner's infidelity, providing practical help for healing after betrayal.

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When Is It Time to Stop Talking About the Affair?
Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/18/25 Couples Issues, Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/18/25

When Is It Time to Stop Talking About the Affair?

Is there a time to stop talking about the affair? Consider ways to reduce conversations about a partner’s affair.

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I Feel Like I’m Married to a Single Man
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 5/15/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 5/15/25

I Feel Like I’m Married to a Single Man

A woman struggles with her husband’s apparent disconnetion in their marriage after his affair.

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Is It Affair Fog or Real Love?
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/10/25 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/10/25

Is It Affair Fog or Real Love?

Article & Song: Is it affair fog or real love? Can you effectively argue that point with someone who’s caught up in the feelings of limerence?

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Signs of a Real Affair Confession
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 5/3/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 5/3/25

Signs of a Real Affair Confession

How can you tell if a an affair confessio is real? How can you believe someone who has betrayed you and lied to you?

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Making Change That Lasts
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 4/28/25 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 4/28/25

Making Change That Lasts

When lasting change feels impossible, your deepest motivation holds the key.

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Truth In Pieces Feels Like a Lie
Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/19/25 Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/19/25

Truth In Pieces Feels Like a Lie

Trickle truth happens when the full truth isn’t told upfront. Instead, it leaks out slowly over time. This article considers why it happens, and how it hinders affair recovery.

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Penitence Without Pardon
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Penitence Without Pardon

The healing work of forgiveness is blocked when the injured partner refuses to let the offender off the hook.

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Completed Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Completed Forgiveness

A consideration of completed forgiveness that includes both cognitive and emotional resolutions.

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Decisional Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Decisional Forgiveness

Can we choose to forgive even if the offender hasn’t taken responsibility or asked for forgiveness?

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Bartered Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Bartered Forgiveness

Forgiveness offered with conditions isn’t effective because it isn’t real forgiveness.

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Fake Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Fake Forgiveness

An explanation of fake forgiveness: what it is and why it hinders relationship healing.

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Premature Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Premature Forgiveness

Reasons why forgiveness that is offered prematurely is ineffective.

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Looking For Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Looking For Forgiveness

Many of the clients I work with struggle with forgiveness. Forgiveness does not come easily to most of us; we have to find our way to it. This article will guide you toward the kind of forgiveness that brings freedom and new beginnings.

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