Affair Recovery
Questions & Answers
Betrayed Partner Questions
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1. You Suspect
- Jan 31, 2023 I suspect my partner is cheating, but they deny it. What should I do?
- Jan 31, 2023 My spouse has been involved with someone online. It feels like an affair, but they say I'm taking things too seriously. Am I overreacting?
- Jan 30, 2023 My partner claims they are "just friends," but I think they’re having an affair. What should I do?
- 2. You Just Found Out
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3. Your Partner's Reaction
- Jan 27, 2023 Affair Fog: My partner's views and values have shifted since the affair started, but they claim they always felt this way. What's the truth?
- Jan 24, 2023 My spouse says their affair is over, but I don't know if that's true. What should I do?
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse refuses to answer my questions about the affair. Don't I have the right to know?
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse says they love me but are not in love with me anymore. How can I get them to love me again?
- 4. Choices After Infidelity
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5. Healing After Infidelity
- May 29, 2025 I can't stop obsessing about the affair. How do I stop?
- Jan 22, 2023 My spouse refuses to answer my questions about the affair. Don't I have the right to know?
- Jan 21, 2023 I want to know the truth about the affair. What questions should I ask?
- Jan 20, 2023 How long should I keep asking questions about the affair?
- Jan 18, 2023 Can I ever really trust my spouse again?
- Jan 17, 2023 Should I make my partner go to counseling?
- Jan 15, 2023 How long will it take our relationship to heal?
- Jan 14, 2023 The affair broke our marriage; now I am alone. Is my life ruined?
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6. The Other Woman/Man
- Jan 28, 2023 How can I compete when the Affair Partner seems better than me?
- Jan 26, 2023 My partner says they are done with the affair but still want to stay in touch with the affair partner. Should I be okay with that?
- Jan 25, 2023 How can I get my partner to break off contact with the lover without demands or ultimatums?
Involved Partner Questions
- 1. Your Partner Doesn't Know
- 2. Your Partner's Reactions
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3. Making A Choice
- Jan 27, 2023 Why should I return to my marriage if I'm no longer in love with my spouse?
- Jan 26, 2023 My feelings for my lover are so intense; how can anyone expect me to get over them?
- Jan 25, 2023 I'm trying to end the affair, but keep going back and forth between my lover and spouse. How do I choose?
- Jan 24, 2023 If the affair is over, is it okay to have ongoing contact with the affair partner?
- 4. Understanding Your Affair
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5. Other Questions
- Jan 20, 2023 What should I tell my kids?
- Jan 19, 2023 So much damage has been done. Is my life ruined?
More questions? Submit your question to be answered in this section. Also, many of these issues (and more) are addressed in our Affair Healing Articles.