Caught in a Loop: Shifting Choices about Your Marriage’s Future
Leaving and returning isn't always indecision; it also happens when someone keeps changing the information you're deciding with.
The Cat Knew First
The internet loves a good discovery story; it just never sticks around for the part where someone has to live in it.
Surviving Isn’t Thriving
Most couples stay together after an affair; far fewer actually heal. What makes the difference?
Afraid of Intimacy?
Video: Is "fear of intimacy" really cowardice, or is it the rational armor of someone who has learned exactly what heartbreak costs?
When Your Devices Spill the Tea
Your smart device was always keeping track; it just never occurred to you that it was keeping track of everything.
The Notification Divorce
Sometimes the attention to online distractions reveals the growing disconnection in a relationship.
The Betrayal Often Begins Before the Affair
The loneliness you felt before their affair was real; in a way, betrayal had already begun.
A Partner’s Privacy
What your partner called privacy may have been something else: secrets you never knew existed.
Affair Bubbles
There's a reason affairs feel like they do. They usually exist inside a bubble. And like all bubbles, the experience inside has almost no resemblance to what's outside.
Slow Drift: “I Never Meant for It to Happen”
The Unintended Affair: You told yourself you never meant for it to happen, but your hand was on the rudder the whole time.
Online Assessment: Emotional Affair Self-Assessment
Now an ONLINE Assessment: Emotional Affair Self-Assessment created by affair recovery author and therapist, Linda MacDonald.
How Could I Have Been So Blind?
When betrayal blindsides you, the shame of not having seen it coming belongs to your partner's choice to deceive, not your failure to notice.