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How They Behave When It Ends
Video Clips Tim Tedder 10/27/25 Video Clips Tim Tedder 10/27/25

How They Behave When It Ends

This film explores the paradox that we often only see a person's authentic self when the relationship ends.

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After Betrayal: The Year the Ground Gave Way
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/24/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/24/25

After Betrayal: The Year the Ground Gave Way

As recovery continues, Rising Phoenix describes the experiences and lessons learned during the first year after Discovery Day.

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His Affair Partner with My Kids
Experiences Tim Tedder 10/22/25 Experiences Tim Tedder 10/22/25

His Affair Partner with My Kids

This often feels like a second betrayal—bringing the affair partner into your children’s lives. Here’s one woman’s story.

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Remembering the Good in Your Relationship
Downloads Tim Tedder 10/21/25 Downloads Tim Tedder 10/21/25

Remembering the Good in Your Relationship

DOWNLOAD: An individual exercise for anyone who’s so focused on the current struggles of a marriage or relationship that they’ve lost sight of what is good about it.

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Discovery Day: The Rest of the Day
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/17/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/17/25

Discovery Day: The Rest of the Day

“Rising Phoenix” writes about the day she first found out about her husband’s affair. This is Part 2 of her writing about Discovery Day.

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Forgiveness Pie: Turning Guilt Into Dessert
Etcetera Tim Tedder 10/15/25 Etcetera Tim Tedder 10/15/25

Forgiveness Pie: Turning Guilt Into Dessert

After his affair, this husband tried to bake his way back into his wife’s heart one pie at a time. His imperfect desserts became a quiet ritual of remorse, persistence, and humor.

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A Way Through My Wife’s Affair
Experiences Tim Tedder 10/14/25 Experiences Tim Tedder 10/14/25

A Way Through My Wife’s Affair

One man’s account of his anguish in trying to move past his wife’s affair.

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Discovery Day: That Morning
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/10/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/10/25

Discovery Day: That Morning

“Rising Phoenix” writes about the morning she first found out about her husband’s affair. This is Part 1 of her writing about Discovery Day.

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BOOK REVIEW: Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce
Reviews Tim Tedder 10/8/25 Reviews Tim Tedder 10/8/25

BOOK REVIEW: Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce

A review of Linda MacDonald’s new book, written to Christians whose spouses have betrayed and abondoned them.

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Exercise: Clarify Your Boundaries
Downloads Tim Tedder 10/7/25 Downloads Tim Tedder 10/7/25

Exercise: Clarify Your Boundaries

Download: A quick, practical exercise that helps couples clarify personal boundaries around various issues to build mutual understanding and trust.

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When Someone Cheats on You
Video Clips Tim Tedder 10/6/25 Video Clips Tim Tedder 10/6/25

When Someone Cheats on You

Audio/Video: A talk by Brene Brown about dealing with cheating.

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Forgiving Me: My Side of the Story
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/3/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 10/3/25

Forgiving Me: My Side of the Story

In this open essay, the author examines betrayal’s aftermath and the hard work of self-forgiveness. Healing from infidelity becomes a reckoning with ignored boundaries, silenced instincts, and the choice to heal even when it isn’t fair.

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