Be grateful for THIS?! Not necessarily.
Tim considers what it means (and doesn’t mean) to find gratitude in every circumstance.
An Affair Discovered Six Years Later
A man accidentally discovers messages revealing his wife had an affair with a coworker six years ago, a betrayal she had never disclosed.
Love Is More Than Chemistry
A relational psychotherapist draws on worldwide research to reveal that lasting love is built on six intentional, learnable ingredients.
Download: 160 Questions for Couples
New & revised download, now with over 160 conversation starter questions for couples, from casual to intimate.
Video: 3 Things that Get Confused for Forgiveness
Tim Tedder’s guest appearance on the No More Perfect podcast, talking about forgiveness.
The Man Across the Fence
A woman, blindsided by her husband's affair, offers a neighbor the one thing betrayal takes first: the truth.
DOWNLOAD: Curious Communication for Couples
An exercise to help couples practice curiosity-based communication, exploring each other’s thoughts and feelings without debate, advice, or judgment.
They Didn’t Want to “Ride or Die” Anymore
A couple realizes that real commitment isn’t “ride or die,” but the quieter, daily choice to be present and honest with each other.
When Blame Becomes the New Language
A reflective look at how blame can quietly stall healing if it becomes the only posture in a wounded relationship.
Lonely Together: How We Drifted and What Happened Next
After years of distance, a brief affair forced this couple to confront their loneliness and decide whether they could build something new.
A Stranger’s Healing Encouragement
A brief encounter in a grocery store reminds a betrayed partner that healing, though deeply personal, is never entirely solitary.
Incomprehensible Betrayal, Unbreakable Survival
The remarkable story of betrayal and abuse, and the victim’s unusual bravery and resilience in the aftermath.