The Bird Theory
The Bird Theory and The Bird Test online are based on the discoveries of John Gottman. In this video, Dr. Gottman explains precisely what the bird theory is.
VIDEO: Why Venting Anger Doesn’t Help
Does venting actually help you cool off, or does it just add fuel to the fire? Social psychologist Jennifer Parlamis busts common myths about anger.
VIDEO: The Science of Lasting Love
Relationship advice from 50+ years of marriage and decades of research by the Gottmans.
Video: The Pains of Leaving
This brief clip features “Kevin,” who reflects on the conflict surrounding his role as a father after leaving his family for his affair partner.
Music Video: This Healing Place
A video illustration of our theme song, This Healing Place.
How They Behave When It Ends
This film explores the paradox that we often only see a person's authentic self when the relationship ends.
When Someone Cheats on You
Audio/Video: A talk by Brene Brown about dealing with cheating.
Whatever’s Keeping You Stuck May Be Trying To Teach You Something
VIDEO: The thing that seems to keep you stuck might have a message you’re not hearing.
Make Peace with Being Single (Again)
Video: If you find yourself single again, learn to be okay with it before you jump into another relationship.
Video: Let It Hurt, Let It Heal, Let It Go
Learning how to move on instead of staying stuck.
When Your Ex Does Better in the Next Relationship
Video: Did you help your ex be better in their next relationship?
Video: Affair Healing Update
Video: Tim gives another update about what’s coming next to this site.