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Affair Recovery Resources and Online Coaching

Healing & Hope for Hurting People

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“Infidelity is a wound, not a death blow. For over 20 years, we’ve guided individuals and couples in affair recovery toward healing and transformation. Too often, people fall back on familiar patterns to solve their problems. This might be your chance to try something new.”

-Tim Tedder, LMHC

RECENT PODCAST EPISODES
ILYBINILWY: “I’m not IN love with you.”
ILYBINILWY: “I’m not IN love with you.”

ILYBINILWY: “I love you, but I’m not in love with you.” In this episode, Tim Tedder explores what it really means, why it often shows up in the shadow of an affair, and how to respond with steadiness instead of panic.

Multiple Affairs: The Couple
Multiple Affairs: The Couple

Can a marriage survive not just one affair, but dozens? In this episode, Ryan and Jen share their remarkable story of heartbreak, hard work, and the slow rebuilding of trust after years of betrayal.

Multiple Affairs: The Counselors
Multiple Affairs: The Counselors

Tim & Jennifer unpack the challenges of multiple affairs—the unique considerations, how couples can heal, and what rebuilding trust really takes.

RECENT ARTICLES
Should You Tell Children About an Affair?
Should You Tell Children About an Affair?

What should you tell children about an affair? Is it better to tell them or protect them from a painful truth?

8 Forms of Betrayal: The Many Ways Trust is Broken
8 Forms of Betrayal: The Many Ways Trust is Broken

A consideration of eight forms of betrayal that can break trust in a marriage or committed relationship.

Shame after Infidelity: Build Bridges Instead of Walls
Shame after Infidelity: Build Bridges Instead of Walls

A look at how shame shows up after infidelity, what it does, and what can be done about it.

RECENT BLOG POSTS
Download: 4 Phone Wallpapers
Download: 4 Phone Wallpapers

Download: 4 phone wallpapers with suble affair healing themes.

A Quiet Victory in a Complicated Good-bye
A Quiet Victory in a Complicated Good-bye

A woman’s choice to get out of her relationship with a married man.

When Your Ex Does Better in the Next Relationship
When Your Ex Does Better in the Next Relationship

Video: Did you help your ex be better in their next relationship?

Help That Works

The affair recovery resources and coaching offered on this site are developed by licensed therapists, each of whom has had personal experience in a betrayal story. This site was created in 2009 to expand our effective treatments to users worldwide. We continue to develop resources with a passion to help any individual or relationship that has been wounded by infidelity.

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“I know it’s been many years since we chatted. [We] are celebrating our 22nd anniversary tomorrow and we’ve been talking about all the ups and downs over the decades, the gratitude we have for the life and relationship we’ve sustained... Our conversation came back to you more than once... We are so grateful for you. You were such a critical part of us surviving together, and we still utilize many of the tools you gave us so many years ago. Thanks again!”
— email from "Lauren" - former client

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