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Healing & Hope for Hurting People

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For over 20 years, my passion has been to help individuals and couples turn snags of affair recovery into sprinboards for healing and change. —Tim Tedder

RECENT PODCAST EPISODES
Elisa, 6 Years Later: Life After He Left
Elisa, 6 Years Later: Life After He Left

Six years after her husband’s betrayal and abandonment (episodes 2-4), Elisa returns to talk about what life has been like since, including meeting the other woman, dealing with her ex, attending to her sons, an learning to date again.

The Broken Marriage, Her Exit Affair
The Broken Marriage, Her Exit Affair

Tim speaks with Joni Woods about surviving an abusive marriage and the exit affair she had on her way out. This episode offers perspective on the complicated intersection of survival, betrayal, and personal responsibility.

Men’s Groups: Show Up. Be Real.
Men’s Groups: Show Up. Be Real.

Men’s coach Jason Lange joins Tim Tedder to explore how emotional suppression, cultural masculinity, and a lack of connection skills drive relationship breakdown—and how men's groups offer a path to awareness, accountability, and genuine intimacy.

RECENT BLOG POSTS
Download: Flip Journal - An Alternative Approach to Journaling
Download: Flip Journal - An Alternative Approach to Journaling

REVISED & UPDATED: Downloadable guide for a simple but effective alternative to the standard journaling process. Helpful in processing intrusive thoughts or negative emotions.

What Affair Healing resources do you value most?
What Affair Healing resources do you value most?

As we decide “what’s next” for Affair Healing, your input matters. Take the 1-minute survey.

Pressured to Stay in a Broken Marriage
Pressured to Stay in a Broken Marriage

In this bonus audio from his interview with Joni Woods, Tim discusses one way some may be pressured to stay in a damaging marriage.

RECENT ARTICLES
Porn and Infidelity: What Every Couple Should Consider
Porn and Infidelity: What Every Couple Should Consider

A consideration of how pornography and infidelity intersect, examining the ways secret or compulsive porn use can erode intimacy and increase vulnerability to affairs.

When Your Partner Won’t Do Their Part: Separation or Sacrifice?
When Your Partner Won’t Do Their Part: Separation or Sacrifice?

If you’re partner who won't do their part, you face two honest choices: step back from the relationship or consciously choose to stay while giving up certain expectations.

Is Affair Healing Biased? A Response to Criticism
Is Affair Healing Biased? A Response to Criticism

Tim Tedder responds to criticism that Affair Healing offers biased information against those who leave their marriage and choose a new relationship with their affair partner.

Our Coaches

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“Infidelity is a wound, not a death blow. For over 20 years, we’ve guided individuals and couples in affair recovery toward healing and transformation. Too often, people fall back on familiar patterns to solve their problems. This might be your chance to try something new.”

-Tim Tedder, LMHC

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Help That Works

The affair recovery resources and coaching offered on this site are developed by licensed therapists, each of whom has had personal experience in a betrayal story. This site was created in 2009 to expand our effective treatments to users worldwide. We continue to develop resources with a passion to help any individual or relationship that has been wounded by infidelity.