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The Affair Recovery Room
From Suffering to Love, Part 2: Gratitude and Love
Tim and Anthony Silard continue their conversation, exploring how gratitude and love can emerge from the wreckage of infidelity for those willing to do the work.
From Suffering to Love, Part 1: Acceptance and Forgiveness
Tim speaks with author Anthony Silard about how acceptance and forgiveness, far from being signs of weakness, are the first essential steps on the path from infidelity's wreckage toward real love.
Setting Good Boundaries: Pleasing, Controlling, or Caring?
Boundaries coach Barb Nangle shares how growing up with infidelity and codependency shaped her patterns and what recovery taught her about the connection between poor boundaries and broken trust.
Better Conversations In Troubled Times
Raffi Bilick joins Tim to explain how intentional communication, validation, and curiosity form the foundation for healing after infidelity.
The Post-Affair Marriage: Who Broke It? Who Should Fix It?
Who broke it? Who fixes it? A nuanced look at responsibility, blame, and rebuilding a marriage after infidelity.
Can You Have a Better Marriage after Infidelity?
Tim talks with Dr. Amy and Roy Clark about feeling stuck after infidelity, exploring humility, boundaries, transparency, and the four pillars that determine whether a marriage will heal.
Deciding to Stay In Your Marriage: The Involved Partner
Tim talks with Dr. Deb Miller about why the unfaithful partner must look inward, not just feel regret. They explore emotional blind spots, family-of-origin patterns, and what real empathy requires if trust is going to grow again.
Deciding to Stay In Your Marriage: The Injured Partner
Tim Tedder & Nancy Pickard discuss the role of the Injured Partner once they decide to stay in the marriage following their partner’s affair.
Deciding to Leave After an Affair: Emotional, Relationship, and Religious Considerations
Tim & Sharon talk about the difficult decision to leave a marriage after an affair. In this second episode, they discuss grief, shame, coparenting, new relationships, and religious considerations.
Deciding to Leave After an Affair: When and Why to Heal Alone
Tim & Sharon talk about the difficult decision to leave a marriage after an affair. In this first episode, they explore the importance of timing and indicators that leaving may be the healthiest next step.
Is there Meaning in this Pain?
Psychologist Bruce Chalmer joins Tim Tedder to explore infidelity as a crisis of meaning and the role of faith in affair healing.
Betrayed and Abandoned: Interview with Linda MacDonald
Tim Tedder interviews author Linda MacDonald about her experience with the double trauma of betrayal and abandonment, and her new book, Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce.