A review of the book, Beyond Betrayal, and excerpts from Tim Tedder's conversation with the author, Lauren LaRusso.

Tim Tedder and Securely Loved founder Bev Mitelman explore how attachment styles form in childhood, why they shape infidelity and betrayal trauma, and how those patterns can change.

Info about the free ebook based on our three-part sexuality series (episodes 66-68) on shame, pleasure, and rebuilding sexual intimacy after infidelity, plus a conversation exercise for couples.

Why sincere apologies fail after infidelity, and the one word that changes everything.

Sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet on rebuilding sexual connection after infidelity—hysterical bonding, the wound of comparison, and why emotional safety has to come first.

Intimacy coach Linda Landon on rediscovering sexual pleasure and why healing begins with your own body, not performance, at any age.

Therapist Jocelyn Silva joins Tim Tedder to explore how sexual shame breeds secrecy and drives infidelity and why relentless authenticity and integrity are the true foundation for intimacy and healing.

Tim revisits his article on betrayal before the affair, then talks with a client whose experience offers a different side of the story.

Suzanne Leydecker reflects on the end of her marriage, the personal patterns she had to unlearn afterward, and a consideration over how much responsibility a betrayed partner should take.

EMDR therapist Laurel van der Toorn explains how this research-backed but admittedly "weird" modality works, why it's especially relevant for betrayal trauma, and what to expect if you decide to pursue it.

Tim interviews Dr. Monique Thompson to discuss the inner trauma experienced by the person who had the affair.

Tim and Zerina Derveni discuss how to rebuild self-trust and identity after betrayal.