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The Affair Recovery Room
Unshakeable: Strong Lessons from Hard Experiences
Suzanne Leydecker reflects on the end of her marriage, the personal patterns she had to unlearn afterward, and a consideration over how much responsibility a betrayed partner should take.
Understanding EMDR: It’s Weird, but It Works
EMDR therapist Laurel van der Toorn explains how this research-backed but admittedly "weird" modality works, why it's especially relevant for betrayal trauma, and what to expect if you decide to pursue it.
The Betrayer’s Pain
Tim interviews Dr. Monique Thompson to discuss the inner trauma experienced by the person who had the affair.
Trust Yourself After Being Betrayed
Tim and Zerina Derveni discuss how to rebuild self-trust and identity after betrayal.
Elisa, 6 Years Later: Life After He Left
Six years after her husband’s betrayal and abandonment (episodes 2-4), Elisa returns to talk about what life has been like since, including meeting the other woman, dealing with her ex, attending to her sons, and learning to date again.
The Broken Marriage, Her Exit Affair
Tim speaks with Joni Woods about surviving an abusive marriage and the exit affair she had on her way out. This episode offers perspective on the complicated intersection of survival, betrayal, and personal responsibility.
Men’s Groups: Show Up. Be Real.
Men’s coach Jason Lange joins Tim Tedder to explore how emotional suppression, cultural masculinity, and a lack of connection skills drive relationship breakdown—and how men's groups offer a path to awareness, accountability, and genuine intimacy.
A Conversation with My Ex: Relationships After Divorce
Tim and his ex-wife Konnie reflect on the cooperative relationship they've built since their divorce, and their adult children share what it has meant to witness it.
The Children’s Experience of My Affair, Our Divorce
Two adult children share their perspective on growing up through a parent’s affair, divorce, and the family life that followed.
A Conversation with My Ex: D-day and the Aftermath
Tim Tedder and his ex-wife, Konnie, talk honestly about the day the full truth came out and the painful months that followed before they separated.
A Conversation with My Ex: Our Marriage, My Affair
An ex-husband and ex-wife talk honestly about how they met, why their marriage struggled, and how an affair changed everything.
Old Wounds, New Hurts
Tim talks with therapist Kayla Crane about the childhood roots of adult behavior and what that has to do with infidelity.