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When the Life You Perform Isn't the Life You're Living
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/11/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/11/26

When the Life You Perform Isn't the Life You're Living

What happens when the exposure of infidelity contradicts a finely crafted public performance?

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Sex After an Affair: No Single Right Way
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/10/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/10/26

Sex After an Affair: No Single Right Way

How do couples navigate physical intimacy after betrayal?

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Trickle Truth: What’s It Really Telling You?
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/8/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 4/8/26

Trickle Truth: What’s It Really Telling You?

When a betrayer reveals the truth in pieces, the motive behind that pattern matters.

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Be grateful for THIS?! Not necessarily.
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 3/25/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 3/25/26

Be grateful for THIS?! Not necessarily.

Tim considers what it means (and doesn’t mean) to find gratitude in every circumstance.

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When Blame Becomes the New Language
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 2/25/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 2/25/26

When Blame Becomes the New Language

A reflective look at how blame can quietly stall healing if it becomes the only posture in a wounded relationship.

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Is an Affair the Worst Thing that Could Happen to a Marriage?
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 2/4/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 2/4/26

Is an Affair the Worst Thing that Could Happen to a Marriage?

Consider this response to the statement, “I no longer believe an affair is the worst thing that can happen to a marriage.”

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Lessons from Jay Kelly
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/25/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/25/26

Lessons from Jay Kelly

What we can learn from the Netflix movie, Jay Kelly, starring George Clooney.

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Talking with Linda MacDonald about Betrayal and Abandonment
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/14/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/14/26

Talking with Linda MacDonald about Betrayal and Abandonment

Some thoughts about my interview with Linda MacDonald, author of Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce.

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Up, Down, and Onward
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/7/26 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 1/7/26

Up, Down, and Onward

Tim Tedder looks back at the ups and downs of the past year, and forward to what’s coming next to the Affair Healing community.

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The Not-So-Happy Holidays
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 12/18/25 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 12/18/25

The Not-So-Happy Holidays

After betrayal, the holidays can be a challenge. Here are a few tips that might help you get through the next couple of weeks.

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When Narcissism Hides in Plain Sight: A Conversation with Annette Chesney
Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 12/10/25 Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 12/10/25

When Narcissism Hides in Plain Sight: A Conversation with Annette Chesney

A summary fo my conversation with Annette Chesney in the podcast episode: Married to a Narcissist.

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We Need a National Healing
Etcetera, Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 9/15/25 Etcetera, Tim-Thoughts Tim Tedder 9/15/25

We Need a National Healing

I’m stepping outside the affair recovery space to talk about the need for a different kind of healing.

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