Slow Drift: “I Never Meant for It to Happen”
The Unintended Affair: You told yourself you never meant for it to happen, but your hand was on the rudder the whole time.
How Could I Have Been So Blind?
When betrayal blindsides you, the shame of not having seen it coming belongs to your partner's choice to deceive, not your failure to notice.
What Affair Healing resources do you value most?
Results of a 1-minute survey to decide “what’s next” for AffairHealing.com.
Pressured to Stay in a Broken Marriage
In this bonus audio from his interview with Joni Woods, Tim discusses one way some may be pressured to stay in a damaging marriage.
Why Most Ex-Spouses Never Have This Conversation
Tim’s thoughts about his conversation with his ex-wife, and why it’s hard for divorced couples to talk this way.
When the Life You Perform Isn't the Life You're Living
What happens when the exposure of infidelity contradicts a finely crafted public performance?
Sex After an Affair: No Single Right Way
How do couples navigate physical intimacy after betrayal?
Trickle Truth: What’s It Really Telling You?
When a betrayer reveals the truth in pieces, the motive behind that pattern matters.
Be grateful for THIS?! Not necessarily.
Tim considers what it means (and doesn’t mean) to find gratitude in every circumstance.
When Blame Becomes the New Language
A reflective look at how blame can quietly stall healing if it becomes the only posture in a wounded relationship.
Is an Affair the Worst Thing that Could Happen to a Marriage?
Consider this response to the statement, “I no longer believe an affair is the worst thing that can happen to a marriage.”
Lessons from Jay Kelly
What we can learn from the Netflix movie, Jay Kelly, starring George Clooney.