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Trusting the Process, Part 3
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/30/26 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/30/26

Trusting the Process, Part 3

Rising Phoenix finishes her story with a 4-part look at her healing process. Here’s part 3: The Last Three Years and the Marriage We Built.

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Trusting the Process, Part 2
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/23/26 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/23/26

Trusting the Process, Part 2

Rising Phoenix finishes her story with a 4-part look at her healing process. Here’s part 2: When the Trusting Process Becomes Real.

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Trusting the Process, Part 1
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/16/26 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/16/26

Trusting the Process, Part 1

Rising Phoenix finishes her story with a 4-part look at her healing process. Here’s part 1: The First Year—Survival, Not Healing.

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Seeing the Other Person for What She Was
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/9/26 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/9/26

Seeing the Other Person for What She Was

Rising Phoenix traces the slow, embodied shift from seeing “the other person” as a rival to recognizing she was never the true threat—the unhealed wounds within the marriage were. It’s about reclaiming self-worth, letting comparison fall away, and coming home to oneself.

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What the Past Can Teach Us
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/2/26 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 1/2/26

What the Past Can Teach Us

Rising Phoenix explores reclaiming the truth of a shared past after betrayal, refusing to let infidelity erase or rewrite decades of real love, struggle, and life built together.

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Steps To Authenticity
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/26/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/26/25

Steps To Authenticity

How rebuilding after infidelity wasn’t just about salvaging a relationship, but about learning to trust the body, understand triggers, and show up differently for yourself. Rising Phoenix tells how healing became a slow return to self rather than a rush to restore what was lost.

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My Favorite Season
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/19/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/19/25

My Favorite Season

Christmas seasons after betrayal became quiet markers of grief, survival, and slow rebuilding, shifting the holiday from something lost to something redefined. Love and joy now come from presence, honesty, and a steadiness earned through pain.

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Healing My Nervous System
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/12/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/12/25

Healing My Nervous System

Rising Phoenix’s body began healing only after she named her Complex PTSD, reclaimed her boundaries, and stopped abandoning herself to feel safe in relationships. The real recovery turned survival into stability, and self-protection into self-trust.

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What If They Do It Again?
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/5/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 12/5/25

What If They Do It Again?

Rising Phoenix considers the fear of giving someone another chance after betrayal, how forgiveness doesn’t erase distrust, and how transparency alone can’t rebuild safety. Real healing begins when the focus shifts from monitoring them to reclaiming yourself.

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The “Why” Was Never About Her
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/28/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/28/25

The “Why” Was Never About Her

Rising Phoenix sees the affair as a symptom of deeper, unaddressed pain and emotional avoidance rather than a relationship with another person. The true shift comes when she stops comparing, faces the truth, and begins rebuilding from the inside out.

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Choosing Myself
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/21/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/21/25

Choosing Myself

The story of a year after infidelity, moving from total emotional collapse to slow, self-directed healing. As Rising Phoenix’s husband begins his own work and gains diagnoses, she discovers the real breakthrough is forgiving herself, not just him.

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The Quietest Part of the Storm
Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/14/25 Experiences, Rising Phoenix Tim Tedder 11/14/25

The Quietest Part of the Storm

How infidelity shattered Rising Phoenix’s sense of self, plunging her into fog, panic, and eventually a diagnosis of complex PTSD. She describes the painful tension of staying, breaking, and slowly beginning to heal while still unsure of what remains.

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