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Is It Affair Fog or Real Love?
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/10/25 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/10/25

Is It Affair Fog or Real Love?

Article & Song: Is it affair fog or real love? Can you effectively argue that point with someone who’s caught up in the feelings of limerence?

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The Cost to Repair a Marriage After an Affair
Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/7/25 Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 5/7/25

The Cost to Repair a Marriage After an Affair

Repairing your marriage after your affair may be the hardest thing you’ll ever do, but the payoff is worth it.

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Making Change That Lasts
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 4/28/25 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues, Understanding Infidelity Tim Tedder 4/28/25

Making Change That Lasts

When lasting change feels impossible, your deepest motivation holds the key.

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The Word After “Sorry” Makes or Breaks Your Apology
Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/24/25 Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/24/25

The Word After “Sorry” Makes or Breaks Your Apology

Saying “I’m sorry” can be one of the most vulnerable, courageous things you do in a relationship. Too many apologies fall flat because of the word that came next.

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Truth In Pieces Feels Like a Lie
Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/19/25 Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/19/25

Truth In Pieces Feels Like a Lie

Trickle truth happens when the full truth isn’t told upfront. Instead, it leaks out slowly over time. This article considers why it happens, and how it hinders affair recovery.

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Selfish Apologies
Couples Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Couples Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Selfish Apologies

Forgiveness is hindered when an apology is offered to provide relief for the offender rather than the one who was hurt.

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Does Telling the Truth Help or Harm?
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 1/31/25 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 1/31/25

Does Telling the Truth Help or Harm?

Getting the truth about an affair is essential for healing, but it also becomes a source of endless agony for many who have been betrayed. So, what truth helps? What truth harms?

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The Gift of a Second Chance
Involved Partner Issues Anonymous 9/8/24 Involved Partner Issues Anonymous 9/8/24

The Gift of a Second Chance

I never believed I could survive telling the truth, that you would survive hearing it, that we could survive its aftermath, or that you would even be willing to offer me the chance.

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When Does It Become Cheating?
Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 12/1/21 Involved Partner Issues, Injured Partner Issues Tim Tedder 12/1/21

When Does It Become Cheating?

When does your involvement in another friendship become “cheating” on your spouse?

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Six Options After Your Affair
Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/1/20 Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 6/1/20

Six Options After Your Affair

Six possible choices to be made by someone who’s had an affair.

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Should Accountability Be Required After an Affair?
Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 3/1/20 Injured Partner Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 3/1/20

Should Accountability Be Required After an Affair?

Following an affair, should the involved partner be required to be accountable in their ongoing behaviors?

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The Neuroscience of Affair Fog
Understanding Infidelity, Involved Partner Issues Dr L 6/4/19 Understanding Infidelity, Involved Partner Issues Dr L 6/4/19

The Neuroscience of Affair Fog

A neuroscientist solves the puzzle of affair fog by looking at what's going on in our heads.

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