Downloads: Shame & Guilt Exercises
Downloads: Two sets of exercises (one for individuals, one for couples) to help address shame and guilt (supplements to the Shame after Infidelity article).
Download: 6 Affair Motives (Guide)
Download: A guide to the motivations discussed in podcast episode #14 - 6 Affair Motives.
Review: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes
Book Review: Jennifer reviews Good Boundaries and Goodbyes by Lysa TerKeurst.
The One I Hurt Most Loved Me Most
After his affair, a man gains insight into his life patterns, and recognizes what healthy love looks like.
Download: Flip Journaling - An Alternative Approach
Download: Instructions for a simple but effective alternative to the standard journaling process. Helpful in processing intrusive thoughts or negative emotions.
The Pact That Outlasted the Therapist
One couple decides to keep their pact and stay together even when advised to consider divorce. Based on a real experience.
Survey Results: Are boundaries subjective?
Survey: Are relationship boundaries subjective? Or are there behaviors that break trust in any relationship?
Two Unfaithful Men: One Confesses, One Responds
An open exchange between two men who had affairs - the first makes current confessions; the second responds.
Download: Reclaiming a Marriage Perspective
Download: Individual exercise to help bring balance to a critical view of a marriage.
Infidelity in U.S. Marriages: Prevalence and Impact
An overview of statistics indicating how infidelity impacts marriages of USA couples.
Review: Mistakes Were Made (but not by me)
Tim reviews one of his favorite books, Mistakes Were Made - a look at the compromises and justifications we use to act and think in wrong ways.
Saying Hard Things the Right Way
A “Moral Compass” principle that can help us speak up effectively when hard things need to be said.