Are boundaries in committed relationships subjective? Or are there behaviors that cross boundaries and break trust in any relationship? Tell us what you think.

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YOUR GENDER *

Male

Female

Non-binary

YOUR AGE

Under 30

30-45

46-60

60+

AGREE or DISAGREE? *

1. Some boundaries are absolute; they are wrong to cross in any relationship.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

2. Partners should agree on all boundary issues.

Strongly Disagree

Disagree

Neutral

Agree

Strongly Agree

OBJECTIVE BOUNDARIES *

Which of these boundaries is wrong to cross in any relationship? Check all that apply. [*assume an extra, non-family relationship]

Strong Emotional Connection*

Saying "I Love You"*

Showing Physical Affection (hugs, kisses)*

Sexual Interaction without Intercourse*

Sexual Intercourse*

Online Flirting*

Online Sex*

Using Porn

Private Masturbation

Private Fantasies

There are No Absolute Boundaries

Other

ADDITIONAL COMMENT

Anything else you'd like to share? It's optional, but feel free to leave a comment.

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Tim Tedder

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