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Penitence Without Pardon
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Penitence Without Pardon

The healing work of forgiveness is blocked when the injured partner refuses to let the offender off the hook.

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Selfish Apologies
Couples Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Couples Issues, Involved Partner Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Selfish Apologies

Forgiveness is hindered when an apology is offered to provide relief for the offender rather than the one who was hurt.

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Completed Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Completed Forgiveness

A consideration of completed forgiveness that includes both cognitive and emotional resolutions.

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Decisional Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Decisional Forgiveness

Can we choose to forgive even if the offender hasn’t taken responsibility or asked for forgiveness?

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Bartered Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Bartered Forgiveness

Forgiveness offered with conditions isn’t effective because it isn’t real forgiveness.

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Fake Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Fake Forgiveness

An explanation of fake forgiveness: what it is and why it hinders relationship healing.

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Premature Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Premature Forgiveness

Reasons why forgiveness that is offered prematurely is ineffective.

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Looking For Forgiveness
Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25 Injured Partner Issues, Couples Issues Tim Tedder 4/17/25

Looking For Forgiveness

Many of the clients I work with struggle with forgiveness. Forgiveness does not come easily to most of us; we have to find our way to it. This article will guide you toward the kind of forgiveness that brings freedom and new beginnings.

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