

Audio: Should I wait for my husband’s midlife crisis to end?
Tim Tedder answers a woman’s questions about whether she can expect her husband’s affair to end once his midlife crisis is over.

Video: Healthy Couples Learn How to Fight
Video: Relationship experts John & Julie Gottman explain how healthy conflict can lead to deeper connection and predict a couple’s future.

The Regrets of His Affair
After his affair, a man considers all he has lost.

Download: Writing about Your Negative Experiences
A quick guide to help you use writing as a way to process negative experiences.

Review: Parents Who Cheat
A review of Parents Who Cheat, a book written for adult children and parents of small children who have experienced a infidelity in their home.

Video: After Infidelity, Stay or Go?
Lucy Beresford argues that the more courageous option after infidelity is to stay and rebuild that relationship.

Dealing with the Affair Partner
After her husband’s affair, Elisa talks about the struggle of dealing with the affair partner. [podcast transcription]

Discussion Guide: Rethinking Infidelity
Download: A guide to use for discussing Esther Perel’s TED Talk: Rethinking Infidelity.

Making Another First Impression
After the affair, they decided to try starting over again by having a second “first date.”

Video: The Ex You Can’t Get Over
Video: Consider the struggle that occurs when a partner leaves; you know they’re gone but you want to believe in something different.

Toothpick vs Knife
This betrayed wife feels like she's in an unfair fight, so she wants to leave the struggle.

Download: Appreciation Exercise for Couples
Download: An exercise to help couples identify what they appreciate about each other.