Tim Tedder 10/21/25 Tim Tedder 10/21/25

Remembering the Good in Your Relationship

DOWNLOAD: An individual exercise for anyone who’s so focused on the current struggles of a marriage or relationship that they’ve lost sight of what is good about it.

Tim Tedder 10/17/25 Tim Tedder 10/17/25

Discovery Day: The Rest of the Day

“Rising Phoenix” writes about the day she first found out about her husband’s affair. This is Part 2 of her writing about Discovery Day.

Tim Tedder 10/15/25 Tim Tedder 10/15/25

Forgiveness Pie: Turning Guilt Into Dessert

After his affair, this husband tried to bake his way back into his wife’s heart one pie at a time. His imperfect desserts became a quiet ritual of remorse, persistence, and humor.

Tim Tedder 10/14/25 Tim Tedder 10/14/25

A Way Through My Wife’s Affair

One man’s account of his anguish in trying to move past his wife’s affair.

Tim Tedder 10/10/25 Tim Tedder 10/10/25

Discovery Day: That Morning

“Rising Phoenix” writes about the morning she first found out about her husband’s affair. This is Part 1 of her writing about Discovery Day.

Tim Tedder 10/8/25 Tim Tedder 10/8/25

BOOK REVIEW: Redeeming the Post-Affair Divorce

A review of Linda MacDonald’s new book, written to Christians whose spouses have betrayed and abondoned them.

Tim Tedder 10/7/25 Tim Tedder 10/7/25

Exercise: Clarify Your Boundaries

Download: A quick, practical exercise that helps couples clarify personal boundaries around various issues to build mutual understanding and trust.

Tim Tedder 10/6/25 Tim Tedder 10/6/25

When Someone Cheats on You

Audio/Video: A talk by Brene Brown about dealing with cheating.

Tim Tedder 10/3/25 Tim Tedder 10/3/25

Forgiving Me: My Side of the Story

In this open essay, the author examines betrayal’s aftermath and the hard work of self-forgiveness. Healing from infidelity becomes a reckoning with ignored boundaries, silenced instincts, and the choice to heal even when it isn’t fair.

Tim Tedder 10/2/25 Tim Tedder 10/2/25

My Husband Left and I’m Still Trying to Understand Why

Her husband walked out after twenty-seven years and never explained me why. It’s ia story of heartbreak, faith, and the slow, uneven road toward healing.