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Affair Recovery Resources and Online Coaching

Healing & Hope for Hurting People

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For over 20 years, my passion has been to help individuals and couples turn snags of affair recovery into sprinboards for healing and change. —Tim Tedder

RECENT PODCAST EPISODES
How Long Does Affair Recovery Take?
How Long Does Affair Recovery Take?

How long does it take to get over an affair? Tim Tedder explores that question through two audio sketches and honest commentary. He shows why rushing recovery or staying stuck too long both block the healing process.

Understand WHY: The Reasons You Cheat
Understand WHY: The Reasons You Cheat

In Understand Why: Reasons You Cheated, Tim Tedder explains how to uncover the real reasons behind infidelity. Learn the areas of risk that reveal why it happened—and how clarity can lead to lasting change.

What Counts as Cheating… Really?
What Counts as Cheating… Really?

Tim Tedder explores how couples define betrayal, set boundaries, and rebuild trust. Hear expert insights, survey results, and a humorous sketch showing how unclear limits can damage relationships.

RECENT ARTICLES
10 Reasons Couples Counseling Doesn’t Work
10 Reasons Couples Counseling Doesn’t Work

Affair recovery counseling for couples can be life-changing, or frustrating. Consider ten common reasons counseling fails after infidelity and what you can do to make real progress.

MASK OFF: Transforming Deception’s Snags into Springboards for Change
MASK OFF: Transforming Deception’s Snags into Springboards for Change

Discover how lies, omissions, and half-truths block affair recovery, and how turning these snags into springboards of authenticity leads to real healing.

Breaking Emotional Ties to an Affair Partner
Breaking Emotional Ties to an Affair Partner

If you’re still tethered to a former affair partner in your heart, you’re not alone. This guide offers a clear path—built on research and compassion—for letting go

RECENT BLOG POSTS
After Betrayal: The Year the Ground Gave Way
After Betrayal: The Year the Ground Gave Way

As recovery continues, Rising Phoenix describes the experiences and lessons learned during the first year after Discovery Day.

His Affair Partner with My Kids
His Affair Partner with My Kids

This often feels like a second betrayal—bringing the affair partner into your children’s lives. Here’s one woman’s story.

Remembering the Good in Your Relationship
Remembering the Good in Your Relationship

DOWNLOAD: An individual exercise for anyone who’s so focused on the current struggles of a marriage or relationship that they’ve lost sight of what is good about it.

Our Coaches

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“Infidelity is a wound, not a death blow. For over 20 years, we’ve guided individuals and couples in affair recovery toward healing and transformation. Too often, people fall back on familiar patterns to solve their problems. This might be your chance to try something new.”

-Tim Tedder, LMHC

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Help That Works

The affair recovery resources and coaching offered on this site are developed by licensed therapists, each of whom has had personal experience in a betrayal story. This site was created in 2009 to expand our effective treatments to users worldwide. We continue to develop resources with a passion to help any individual or relationship that has been wounded by infidelity.