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Our Home Page
affairhealing.com
The Neuroscience of Affair Fog
https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/neuroscience-of-affair-fog
Dealing with an Uncertain or Uncooperative Partner
https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/dealing-with-a-wayward-partner
Truth In Pieces Feels Like a Lie
https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/trickle-truth
5 Stages of Affair Recovery for Couples
https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/5-stages-of-affair-recovery
Looking for Forgiveness
https://www.affairhealing.com/affair-recovery-articles/looking-for-forgiveness
Questions for Couples
https://www.affairhealing.com/blog/questions-for-couples
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RECENT PODCASTS
Should you stay or go after an affair? Therapist Lauren LaRusso, author of Beyond Infidelity, on identity, control, and healing after betrayal.
A review of the book, Beyond Betrayal, and excerpts from Tim Tedder's conversation with the author, Lauren LaRusso.
Tim Tedder and Securely Loved founder Bev Mitelman explore how attachment styles form in childhood, why they shape infidelity and betrayal trauma, and how those patterns can change.
Info about the free ebook based on our three-part sexuality series (episodes 66-68) on shame, pleasure, and rebuilding sexual intimacy after infidelity, plus a conversation exercise for couples.
Sex and intimacy coach Xanet Pailet on rebuilding sexual connection after infidelity—hysterical bonding, the wound of comparison, and why emotional safety has to come first.
Intimacy coach Linda Landon on rediscovering sexual pleasure and why healing begins with your own body, not performance, at any age.
Therapist Jocelyn Silva joins Tim Tedder to explore how sexual shame breeds secrecy and drives infidelity and why relentless authenticity and integrity are the true foundation for intimacy and healing.
RECENT ARTICLES
From four real childhoods, examples of how shame can impact how sexuality is experienced as adults.
Why constant surveillance and forced boundaries can actually prohibit trust instead of strengthening it.
A person who has caused real harm through infidelity can hold regret and gratitude simultaneously.
A consideration of how pornography and infidelity intersect, examining the ways secret or compulsive porn use can erode intimacy and increase vulnerability to affairs.
If you’re partner who won't do their part, you face two honest choices: step back from the relationship or consciously choose to stay while giving up certain expectations.
Tim Tedder responds to criticism that Affair Healing offers biased information against those who leave their marriage and choose a new relationship with their affair partner.
Affairs often begin with small compromises softened by self-justification. By contrasting the Fog and the Light, we see how choices that feel harmless can quietly erode trust, and how an alternative perspective can restore clarity and protect integrity.