Multiple Affairs: The Counselors
The Perspective of Two Counselors
Two of our Affair Healing coaches, who are also licensed counselors, discuss what it means when one partner has had more than one affair. Compared to single infidelities, what’s the same? What’s different? What unique considerations need to be made?
When infidelity happens more than once, recovery gets even harder. Therapists Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras unpack the challenges of multiple affairs—the unique characteristics and considerations for each partner. Honest, compassionate conversations for partners, strayers, and the professionals who support them.
Whether you’re a partner trying to understand or the one who strayed, this podcast offers insight, guidance, and hope for navigating this difficult terrain of relational repair.
Episode Notes
00:00 Introduction
03:10 Multiple Affair Measures: Timeline, Frequency, Discoveries, Patterns
09:45 Considering the Betrayed Partner
14:40 Considering the Involved Partner
19:40 The Risk of Ongoing Infidelity
22:05 The Hard Work of Change
28:30 Counselor Perspectives
Links & Extras
Two courses for asking questions and giving answers about an affair: Truth Talk: Asking Questions and Truth Talk: Giving Answers.
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Tim Tedder: Coaching Information
Jennifer Gingras: Coaching Information and Counseling Website
