The Ping Pong Effect

The Indecision of an Unfaithful Partner

Why do some people remain stuck in their inability to choose between their marriage and an affair? Why do the constantly shift between one choice and the other? What are the consequences of this indecision? What might help someone break this back-and-forth pattern?


An honest consideration of the indecision between choosing your spouse or your affair partner, based on the personal experience and professional work of Tim Tedder, LMHC.

Episode Notes

  • 00:00 Introduction

  • 02:05 A Story of Indecision

  • 05:45 The Damage of Indecision

  • 07:35 What Keeps You Stuck?

  • 11:30 What I Wish I’d Known

  • 12:40 Questions to Ask Yourself

  • 14:40 Making Space to Consider

  • 16:05 Regret and Opportunity

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