Learn to clearly communicate why you cheated and how you’ll change.
If you were the unfaithful partner and you need more clarity in your past and for your future, RENOVATE is for you. I’ve been where you are and want to help you get to a better place. Tell me your story.
Tim Tedder
Is RENOVATE for you?
To start, tell me a little bit about yourself. I will use this information only to get back to you with specific recommendations tailored to you. No spammy emails; promise.
What is RENOVATE?
The RENOVATE Project helps unfaithful partners do more than just apologize—it helps them transform. Created by Tim Tedder, a licensed counselor and affair recovery specialist with over two decades of experience, this program includes a variety of resources to help turn the wreckage of betrayal into an opportunity for personal and relationship renovation.
The core component, a RENOVATE Group, reveals what’s been hidden, discovers why they made the choices they did, shapes a clear vision for change, and takes practical actions to rebuild trust and intimacy.
RENOVATE Questions & Answers
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Many resources are also available through the RENOVATE Project, depending on your level of need and availability. At its core is the RENOVATE Group, an 8-week small group coaching program led by Tim Tedder.
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It will help you do more than just “get past” your infidelity. It will show you how to use your failure as a catalyst for significant change, allowing you to offer a secure and satisfying relationship to your partner.
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Members will go through the NOVA process, created by Tim Tedder, to help participants reveal what’s been hidden, discover why they made their choices, shape a clear vision for change, and take practical actions to rebuild trust and intimacy.
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In addition to the coaching, RENOVATE Group participants will receive weekly resources, including free access to courses. Graduating members will also have access to Tim’s scheduling calendar for future sessions (individuals and couples). Tim is prioritizing his future coaching for those who have completed RENOVATE.
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Participation is by invitation only. We want to make sure it’s a good fit for you. To begin the process, please complete the form on this page.
We fail. We learn. We change. We grow.
After more than two decades helping individuals and couples heal in the aftermath of infidelity, I’m shifting my personal focus toward those who have broken trust in their relationship. This isn’t just a professional transition, it’s a deeply personal one. Because your story is, in many ways, my own.
Following my affair, I wrestled with shame and the fear that I might never be trusted again, or if anyone would really be satisfied in a relationship with me. I felt like damaged goods. But out of that painful season came the most profound growth of my life.
Now, I want to help you find that same possibility. Beneath all the hurt, shame, and confusion lies a remarkable opportunity—to renovate yourself into someone even more trustworthy, grounded, and capable of love than you were before.
—Tim Tedder, LMHC