Use Your Past Infidelity to Become the Person Your Partner Needs

After more than two decades helping individuals and couples heal in the aftermath of infidelity, I’m shifting my personal focus toward those who have broken trust in their relationship. This isn’t just a professional transition, it’s a deeply personal one. Because your story is, in many ways, my own.

After my affair, I wrestled with shame and the fear that I might never be trusted again, or if anyone would really be satisfied in a relationship with me. I felt like damaged goods. But out of that painful season came the most profound growth of my life.

Now, I want to help you find that same possibility. Beneath all the hurt, shame, and confusion lies a remarkable opportunity—to rebuild yourself into someone even more trustworthy, grounded, and capable of love than you were before.

—Tim Tedder