Good Sex

A downloadable ebook that explores what three conversations about sex revealed about shame, intimacy, and reconnection after infidelity.

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This publication grew out of three conversations I had with guests on the Affair Recovery Room podcast. Each brought her own perspective on sexuality, with particular attention to how couples manage sex after infidelity. Information about each guest and episode is listed below.

What struck me as I talked with them was how much their experiences overlapped, not only with each other but with my own. Three women on different paths, arriving at the same conclusions from different directions. That convergence seemed worth more than an audio file, so I’ve put it in writing here, along with practical steps couples can take if they want help in this area of their relationship.

My thanks to Jocelyn, Linda, and Xanet for their openness. Each of them now spends her working life helping others navigate some aspect of sexuality, and I’d encourage you to look at the resources on their websites, listed below.

Sex is a difficult thing to talk about, and everyone seems to have an opinion about it. I’ve worked as a licensed counselor and coach for more than twenty years, and I’ve sat with many couples who were struggling with it. If you’re one of them, I hope this download gives you information, hope, and somewhere to start.

Gratefully,
Tim Tedder


This material is built on the contributions of these three women: