A Conversation with My Ex: Relationships After Divorce

New Family Dynamic

The hardest part of healing after a divorce isn't the moment you decide to forgive. It's every ordinary moment after that—the birthday parties, the graduations, the holidays—where you choose it again and again.

In this final episode of A Conversation with My Ex, Tim and Konnie talk about the relationship they've built in the years since their divorce. It hasn't been without struggle. There have been seasons of tension, moments of hurt, and the ongoing challenge of staying cooperative when old wounds made that feel unreasonable. But they kept choosing it for their children, and for themselves.

Their children speak in this episode, too. Now adults with families of their own, they share what it has meant to grow up watching two people refuse to let the worst chapter of their family's story become the defining one. Their children and their grandchildren are growing up knowing the full story and witnessing firsthand what genuine healing can produce. Konnie also shares that the cooperative, caring relationship she and Tim have built is one her current husband not only knows about but fully supports.

This episode is a true account of what becomes possible when two people decide that their shared future matters more than their painful past.

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Send a Message to Konnie

You can send a private message to Konnie by using the contact form available on the episode 1 page.