an Affair Healing Podcast
Tim Tedder hosts "The Recovery Room" podcast, an audio program focused on affair healing. Listen here or in Apple Podcasts, Google Play, SoundCloud, Stitcher, TuneIn and other popular podcast feeds.
"Gaslighting: You Make Me Crazy"
Tim & Sharon discuss gaslighting. What is gaslighting? How does it show up during an affair and in various stages of affair recovery? What should you do if you someone is trying to gaslight you?
Upcoming Podcasts:
- Getting the Truth
- When He Leaves for Another Woman (a series from various perspectives)
Past Episodes
#502 Dealing with Multiple Affairs
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss unique issues to be consdidered when working with someone who has had multiple affairs. Is real recovery possible? What should the betrayed partner do? What should the involved partner do?
#501 Satisfying Choices, Lasting Change
Tim Tedder talks about what influences the choices and changes we make with particular focus on decisions made in the aftermath of an affair. In the introduction, Tim and Sharon discuss life shifts resulting from COVID-19.
#408 Stuck On A Feeling: The Power of Limerence
Tim and Sharon interview Dr. L, a neuroscientist, to learn more about the limerence experience. What's going on in the brain of someone who is caught up in the powerful emotions often experienced in an affair (a condition sometimes called "Affair Fog")?
#407 Infidelity Choices: Compromise, Indecision, Recovery
Tim, Sharon, and Jenn discuss infidelity choices that result in compromises (crossing the line into infidelity), indecision, and affair recovery as they review earlier conversations about these issues.
#406 Infidelity Reactions: Anger, Children, Forgiveness
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss affair responses related to anger, children, and forgiveness as they review their earlier conversations about these topics.
#405 Check-In: What do they remember about the affair?
Tim, Sharon, and Jenn discuss a caller's question about whether or not to believe her husband's claim that he cannot remember the details of his infidelity.
#404 Why Did You Cheat?
Tim Tedder reviews the process for helping clients gain insight into the "why" of their infidelity.
#403 Check-In: Sex Struggles After an Affair?
Tim Tedder responds to a caller's question about sexual disconnection after her husband's affair.
#402 Check-In: How do I help him heal from my affair?
Our counselors respond to one woman's question about what she can do to help her husband, who still seems stuck two years after her affair.
#401 Post Betrayal Transformation: Debi Silber Interview
Dr. Debi Silber talks to Tim about the five stages of post betrayal transformation.
#306 Trauma of Betrayal Pt 2: Recovering from Trauma
Tim & Sharon address the trauma of betrayal. In Part 2, they focus on therapies and exercises that assist in recovery from trauma.
#305 Trauma of Betrayal Pt 1: Understanding Trauma
Tim & Sharon address the trauma of betrayal. In Part 1, they focus on understanding the trauma experience.
#304 Affair Recovery Q&A #2
Tim, Sharon and Jennifer Gingras answer callers' questions regarding healing from infidelity...
#303 The State of Affairs #2: Telling & Exploring
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 2, they talk about whether or not to tell about an affair and the issues that might need to be explored by couples who want to grow on the other side of infidelity.
#302 The State of Affairs #1: Meaning & Roles
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 1, they talk about understanding the meaning behind an affair and the role of each partner in the recovery process.
#301 Affair Recovery Q&A #1
Tim and Sharon give their responses to four questions asked by callers.
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss unique issues to be consdidered when working with someone who has had multiple affairs. Is real recovery possible? What should the betrayed partner do? What should the involved partner do?
#501 Satisfying Choices, Lasting Change
Tim Tedder talks about what influences the choices and changes we make with particular focus on decisions made in the aftermath of an affair. In the introduction, Tim and Sharon discuss life shifts resulting from COVID-19.
#408 Stuck On A Feeling: The Power of Limerence
Tim and Sharon interview Dr. L, a neuroscientist, to learn more about the limerence experience. What's going on in the brain of someone who is caught up in the powerful emotions often experienced in an affair (a condition sometimes called "Affair Fog")?
#407 Infidelity Choices: Compromise, Indecision, Recovery
Tim, Sharon, and Jenn discuss infidelity choices that result in compromises (crossing the line into infidelity), indecision, and affair recovery as they review earlier conversations about these issues.
#406 Infidelity Reactions: Anger, Children, Forgiveness
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss affair responses related to anger, children, and forgiveness as they review their earlier conversations about these topics.
#405 Check-In: What do they remember about the affair?
Tim, Sharon, and Jenn discuss a caller's question about whether or not to believe her husband's claim that he cannot remember the details of his infidelity.
#404 Why Did You Cheat?
Tim Tedder reviews the process for helping clients gain insight into the "why" of their infidelity.
#403 Check-In: Sex Struggles After an Affair?
Tim Tedder responds to a caller's question about sexual disconnection after her husband's affair.
#402 Check-In: How do I help him heal from my affair?
Our counselors respond to one woman's question about what she can do to help her husband, who still seems stuck two years after her affair.
#401 Post Betrayal Transformation: Debi Silber Interview
Dr. Debi Silber talks to Tim about the five stages of post betrayal transformation.
#306 Trauma of Betrayal Pt 2: Recovering from Trauma
Tim & Sharon address the trauma of betrayal. In Part 2, they focus on therapies and exercises that assist in recovery from trauma.
#305 Trauma of Betrayal Pt 1: Understanding Trauma
Tim & Sharon address the trauma of betrayal. In Part 1, they focus on understanding the trauma experience.
#304 Affair Recovery Q&A #2
Tim, Sharon and Jennifer Gingras answer callers' questions regarding healing from infidelity...
#303 The State of Affairs #2: Telling & Exploring
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 2, they talk about whether or not to tell about an affair and the issues that might need to be explored by couples who want to grow on the other side of infidelity.
#302 The State of Affairs #1: Meaning & Roles
Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras discuss Esther Perel's book, The State of Affairs. In part 1, they talk about understanding the meaning behind an affair and the role of each partner in the recovery process.
#301 Affair Recovery Q&A #1
Tim and Sharon give their responses to four questions asked by callers.
#214 Healing Alone After An Affair
Tim and Sharon discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage.
#213 Crossing the Line: When Does Infidelity Begin?
Tim Tedder considers the line between fidelity and infidelity and examines two affair stories to gain insight into when and how the lines are crossed.
#212 Affair Recovery Myths
Counselors Tim and Sharon talk about 6 common affair recovery myths.
#211 Loveable
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer talk about affair healing issues of worthiness, shame, and grace in their discussion of the book Loveable by Kelly Flanagan.
#210 7 Things Your Betrayed Partner Wishes You Knew
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss 7 truths about affair recovery that betrayed spouses wish their partners understood.
#209 A Reconnected Marriage
Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. (Relationship Renewal Stage 5)
#207 The Cooperating Couple
Continuing in the Relationship Renewal strategy for couples who desire to work together in building a new marriage after infidelity, Tim Tedder explains the fourth stage of Cooperation in which couples form a cooperating partnership to work toward agreed goals.
#205 8 Affair Counseling Cautions
Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity.
#204 Needing To Ask About The Affair
After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon talk about each partner's role in recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to use to help them through this period of affair healing.
#203 Thank God for Wellbutrin
Counselors Tim and Sharon discuss the potential benefits of prescription medication in helping in the affair healing process and consider reasons some people are hesitant to consider using them. This episode includes comments from listeners who share their experience with taking meds.
#202 Forgiving Infidelity
Counselors Tim and Jennifer talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner? This episode also includes comments from listeners and a reading from The Hiding Place written by Corrie ten Boom.
#201 Hope for Change
Counselors Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss results from a recent affair survey asking about last year's experience compared to what's expected in the future.
Tim and Sharon discuss various issues to consider when healing from an affair means leaving the marriage.
#213 Crossing the Line: When Does Infidelity Begin?
Tim Tedder considers the line between fidelity and infidelity and examines two affair stories to gain insight into when and how the lines are crossed.
#212 Affair Recovery Myths
Counselors Tim and Sharon talk about 6 common affair recovery myths.
#211 Loveable
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer talk about affair healing issues of worthiness, shame, and grace in their discussion of the book Loveable by Kelly Flanagan.
#210 7 Things Your Betrayed Partner Wishes You Knew
Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss 7 truths about affair recovery that betrayed spouses wish their partners understood.
#209 A Reconnected Marriage
Tim Tedder explains the steps necessary for couples who, after an affair, want to experience intimacy and trust in their marriage again. He interviews Ryan and Jen who talk about their satisfying marriage seven years after Ryan confessed having multiple affairs. (Relationship Renewal Stage 5)
#207 The Cooperating Couple
Continuing in the Relationship Renewal strategy for couples who desire to work together in building a new marriage after infidelity, Tim Tedder explains the fourth stage of Cooperation in which couples form a cooperating partnership to work toward agreed goals.
#205 8 Affair Counseling Cautions
Counseling is often an important part of affair recovery, but not every counseling choice or experience is a good one. Tim Tedder and Jennifer Gingras, counselors who specialize in affair recovery issues, discuss eight important issues to consider when seeking therapy after infidelity.
#204 Needing To Ask About The Affair
After an affair, betrayed spouses often find themselves wanting to ask countless questions about the affair while the unfaithful spouse responds with resistance or anger. Counselors Tim and Sharon talk about each partner's role in recovery when it comes to questions and answers, offering specific strategies for couples to use to help them through this period of affair healing.
#203 Thank God for Wellbutrin
Counselors Tim and Sharon discuss the potential benefits of prescription medication in helping in the affair healing process and consider reasons some people are hesitant to consider using them. This episode includes comments from listeners who share their experience with taking meds.
#202 Forgiving Infidelity
Counselors Tim and Jennifer talk about forgiveness following an affair. What is forgiveness? What is it not? What gets in the way of forgiving infidelity? What are steps to help you move toward forgiving an unfaithful partner? This episode also includes comments from listeners and a reading from The Hiding Place written by Corrie ten Boom.
#201 Hope for Change
Counselors Tim, Sharon, and Jennifer discuss results from a recent affair survey asking about last year's experience compared to what's expected in the future.
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