Pain Mending for Involved Partners
Introduction

About This Course: Q&A

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Questions & Answers

  • While it will be personally helpful for you to reflect intentionally on the real cost of your infidelity, the larger purpose of this course is to guide both of you toward deeper, more meaningful exchanges.

    Your partner will benefit most from the Pain Mending for Injured Partners course, which offers them specific tools to engage in this process. However, if they are hesitant to take their course, this course will equip you with some basic insights and resources you can share with them to help them take part in the healing journey.

    If your partner is avoiding any participation or cooperation, you will not likely experience any relationship relief at the end of this course.

  • Couples often get stuck when the partner who has been hurt by betrayal feels their pain isn’t fully understood or their partner’s remorse hasn’t been expressed in a meaningful way.

    This course will guide you in clearly considering and responding to the losses your partner has experienced as a result of your choices. You’ll be challenged to respond in a deeper, more constructive manner.

  • There are two courses—one for each partner. Each course is purchased separately ($179), giving partners their own login, access to tools designed specifically for them, coaching session with Tim Tedder, and the ability to track individual progress.

    Either course may be taken independently, with some basic guidance provided for the other partner. However, much more thorough direction is available when both partners complete their respective courses.

  • A 50-minute session is included with EACH course, so if both of you are taking the course designed for you, you can each schedule an individual session with Tim Tedder. This is usually the recommendation.

    However, if you decide you want to use one or both of the sessions as joint sessions, you are free to do so. You’ll need to decide who is scheduling each session and use the appropriate code.

  • That depends on a number of factors. Couples have completed this in as little as 2-3 days, or taken a few weeks to work through the various sections.

    You move ahead at your own pace.