Articles
Affair Recovery, Personal Growth, Relationship Renewal
When Shame is Your First Lesson about Sex
From four real childhoods, examples of how shame can impact how sexuality is experienced as adults.
I Regret My Affair. I'm Also Grateful for It.
A person who has caused real harm through infidelity can hold regret and gratitude simultaneously.
Porn and Infidelity: What Every Couple Should Consider
A consideration of how pornography and infidelity intersect, examining the ways secret or compulsive porn use can erode intimacy and increase vulnerability to affairs.
Shame after Infidelity: Build Bridges Instead of Walls
A look at how shame shows up after infidelity, what it does, and what can be done about it.
Anger FFISHing: What Feelings are Under Your Anger?
Understanding anger as an indicator of more significant emotions under the surface.