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Affair Counseling available locally in Orlando and online to all of Florida.

Stages of Affair Recovery, providing an overview of the stages couples move through as they find healing from an affair. (Free PDF version available for download.)

Books & Resources that provide helpful information to those struggling with affair & marriage issues. 

Questions & Answers for those affected by an affair: the one having an affair, the spouse, the other man or other woman, family and friends. 

Stories & Comments from those who have something to say about their experience. 

Affair Articles, periodic thoughts & insights from Tim's work in affair recovery.

Let me help you recover from the affair.

Although my affair counseling services are based in the Orlando, Florida area, the information and resources provided on this site are intended to be helpful to anyone who needs help coping with an affair. Please let me know if I can help you. Tim Tedder


Affair. Infidelity. Adultery. No matter what label we attach to it, it's an issue that has managed to touch most of us in one way or another. Since you're reading this, it's likely that you, in particular, are experiencing the confusion or pain that eventually surrounds most affairs.

We know that many, many couples are affected by acts of unfaithfulness. Once an affair is discovered, marriages struggle to survive while the spouses struggle with emotions and choices that will have a significant impact on the rest of their lives. There is no such thing as an affair without consequences.

Questions emerge: How could this have happened? Can I ever trust my spouse again? Is my marriage worth saving? How can I be married to someone I am no longer in love with? What did I do wrong? Should I forgive? When will the pain go away? Do we stay together for the sake of the children?

There is good news and bad news when it comes to recovering from an affair. The bad news: It will take time and effort to get through this. The good news: Healing is possible. In fact, the goal of affair recovery is not to just get "back to normal," but to get to a better place than you were before. The work it takes to get there is worth it.

This site is created for those of you who have been touched by an affair with the hope that you will experience restoration. You'll find insight, warning, and encouragement in the answers and articles based on Tim Tedder's work with individuals and couples and in the stories and comments of those who have been where you are now. Additional resources that deal with this topic are also provided. And affair counseling is available to those who live near or can travel to Orlando, Florida, to help you work through the steps necessary to find your way to personal and relational healing. 

If you have any questions or comments, don't hesitate to contact Tim.