Affair Questions & Answers - Healing After an Affair

Affair Questions & Answers > The Other Woman / Other Man (3 entries)

Answers to questions asked by the other woman or other man involved in an affair.

He/she says the affair needs to end, but then keeps coming back to me. What should I do?

You need to take the initiative in ending the relationship once and for all. You probably already realize that this will not end well for you. I'm sure that breaking off ...
I invested a lot in this relationship, but now he/she has gone back to his/her family and I'm left with nothing. I'm still in love. What am I suppose to do?

I know you are in a difficult position. You likely have fewer support options than your former lover. People will tend to judge you more harshly and place more blame on ...
I'm not the only one who was at fault in what happened, but it seems like I'm judged more severely. How to deal with what others are thinking/saying about me?

I agree, it's not fair. Even in situations where the unfaithful spouse did more to initiate and drive the affair, people tend to judge the "other" as the marriage-breaker. You may ...